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Another Year, Another Transgender Day of Rememberance

You know, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender – people are people.
Judith Light

This is my third year writing about Transgender Day of Remembrance. I feel that each year it’s important that we take some time to reflect on those who lost their lives over the past year for being different;  not fitting the cookie cutter mold  the world tries to force upon them . This year is a big year in particular for the LGBTQ community as so many people have lost their lives due to suicide and murder based on sexual orientation, gender identity or their perceived orientation or identity.

I would like to encourage each one you reading this to think about how this year you can take a stand and do something to help stop the deaths, hate, injustice of people just for being different. What can you do on a daily, weekly, monthly, yearly basis to change the lives of others around you?

Conan O’Brian and Earthquakes

NBC Photo: Timothy White

I wanted to take a moment and deviate from the normal format of this blog and talk about a few recent events. I’ll start by expressing my thoughts on Conan O’Brian’s resignation from the host of NBC’s The Tonight Show. I might be bias as Conan has always been my favorite late night talk show host, growing up I remember waiting for David Letterman to end over so I could switch over to NBC and watch Conan. For the record: I am not, never was, and never will be a Jay Leno fan.

It saddens me to watch Conan walk away as host, however, I’m very proud that he was able to take a stand for what he believed in and walk away with such thankfulness and pride for all he’s been given over the last 20 years. One thing that really inspired me was night after night, after the jokes about his future, late night, and us current events he would have a serious moment and say something along the lines of “Look what I do is silly, it’s Hollywood, I’m a talk show host,  there are real people dying in Haiti right now who need our help.”

The two organizations Mr. Brian announced on air were Ben Stiller’s StillerStrong.org and George Clooney’s HopeForHaitiNow.org (which is also supported by Tom Hanks and Robin Williams and I’m sure a slew of other stars.)  Sure you can argue that a lot of stars are doing what they can to help in this time of need for Haiti, which is true, yet to me it the way a man who just lost his job (sure there was a 40 million settlement in it for him and his staff) to still be supportive and care about people just spoke to me. His letter to the Press and Farewell speech both spoke to me in a way in which lends him my support for years to come. To put it in a way that you, the internet will understand: I’m on Team COCO.

© Matthew McDermott / Polaris / eyevine

I also wanted to personally urge you to do something to help out the people of Haiti. I have to admit that I’m often guilty of turning the TV off or avoiding the news for a few days waiting for the whole thing to “blow over” but with tens of thousands dead and missing. According to sources ((http://www.nowpublic.com/world/haiti-earthquake-death-statistics-update-eu-says-200-000-dead-2559557.html)) over 1.5 million are homeless.  Even if all you can do is give a few dollars every bit helps. You may also want to read the The DOs and DON’Ts of Disaster Donations. I  truly believe it is our duty as one of the richest nations to help out.

There are many organizations you can support here are just a few:

World Vision – http://www.worldvision.org

Red Cross (Text HAITI at 90999 to donate $10) – http://www.redcross.org

Hope For Haiti Now – http://hopeforhaitinow.org

Stiller Strong – http://stillerstrong.org

Clinton-Bush Haiti Relief Fund— http://clintonbushhaitifund.org

Supporting an organization you wish to share or have something to say? Leave it in the comments.

$23 for Twenty Three

Well it’s that time of the year again where I’ll be having another birthday. September 8th to be exact. I’m gonna be 23 this year, time seems to be something that as much as we want to, try to, dream about we can’t change. This year I’ve decided to focus on an issue that I feel that I can help change. Although, birthdays aren’t about gifts and presents I’ve decided that I can use my birthday to give the present of clean water to people across the globe.

I’ve created a page at mycharity:water which is part of the parent organization Charity:Water a non-profit, tax deductible, organization with the simple goal to provide clean water to people everywhere. My goal is to give $529 by getting 23 people to all give $23. If you would like to join me in this endeavorer please visit http://mycharitywater.org/BandonRandon.

Well it’s that time of the year again where I’ll be having another birthday. September 8th to be exact. I’m gonna be 23 this year, time seems to be something that as much as we want to, try to, dream about we can’t change. This year I’ve decided to focus on an issue that I feel that I can help change. Although, birthdays aren’t about gifts and presents I’ve decided that I can use my birthday to give the present of clean water to people across the globe.

I’ve created a page at mycharity:water which is part of the parent organization Charity:Water a non-profit, tax deductible, organization with the simple goal to provide clean water to people everywhere. My goal is to give $529 by getting 23 people to all give $23. If you would like to join me in this endeavorer please visit http://mycharitywater.org/BandonRandon.